Friday, July 17, 2009

Girls

You know something, I feel bad for those girls who think they have to do things to get men, to keep men on their side, to make themselves feel better.

Some girls go to great lengths to do such things. They: Say I love you after 2 days. Never tell that they cheated. Assume they're together even if they've only gone out one date. Think their relationship will last if she 'puts out.' Believe that he's not cheating, when she knows he is. Skip from one man to another because she's got clingy issues so badly, she can't be alone, to be independent. Spill their hearts out (expose themselves). Let themselves be taken advantage of. Disregard what her friends tell her. Date another man, aka the rebound guy just to make her ex jealous. Let the guy 'hit it and quit it.'

But you know what? They bring it upon themselves. I do actually feel sorry, maybe a boy ruined it along the way, maybe something is bringing them to have such problems, maybe the boy in question knows exactly what he is doing just to manipulate her. Whatever the problem, whatever the reason, I hope that some day that girl finds a man that she is willing to make happy, and one that is willing to make her happy.

I know I have mine and as I always say, "You may have to kiss a few frogs before you get to your prince charming." I know I did.